Unconditional JOY
We speak of unconditional love….the face only a mother could love, the forgiveness extended to the murderer of one’s son, the pure love a dog shows us day in and day out, even after we’ve just yelled at him moments earlier. The idea of unconditional love is critical to the process of manifestation and getting what we want in that process. Why is this so? Because placing conditions upon life’s circumstances and how others must behave so we can love them is a form of resistance, a lower vibration that is akin to the frequency of suffering. Parked at this frequency, nothing we want can come to us.
We have to love all that is, even the things we wish not to experience, in order to allow the wonderful things we have attracted to manifest in our lives. Question: Do you love “God” or “Source” unconditionally? Really think about your answer. If you’re picking and choosing what to love about life’s circumstances, you’re picking and choosing what to love about God. If you like the title, “All That Is” for your “Source” or “God,” the literal equivalent is all that is currently manifested in your experience and those around you. All that is, IS “All That Is” in the divine sense of the words.
We all have the capacity to love unconditionally, but sadly many don’t utilize that capacity. It is a choice to shift perspective from what is unlovable to what is loveable about a person, place or condition. It is a choice that is not always easy, but when made results in a massive energy shift. It is a view through the lens of All That Is, and what follows is a release of resistance resulting immediately in relief. Relief is always the immediate goal, reaching for a better feeling place, in order to allow the marvelous manifestations you have attracted that are lingering within your reach.
Vibrationally speaking, the concept of “Unconditional Joy” is one in the same as “Unconditional Love.” It is the highest vibrational frequency, the divine domain of miracles. Unconditional Joy says that one can choose to be joyous no matter the circumstances. Pollyanna is it may sound, looking at life through “rose colored glasses” is not only a beautiful way to live, but a way of focusing one’s attractive energy toward all things wanted. When you get to this place folks, and you can stay there most of the time, you are in a position to truly have it all. As Wayne Dyer says, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
You say, “How can I be joyous when I’m broke, sick, tired, lonely or all of the above?” Firstly, shift your attention away from whatever condition is causing you discomfort or negative emotion. Then, think of a time you were absolutely filled with joy and the happiest you can remember being. Feel those feelings intensely. When you begin to feel the heart based emotion of those feelings, focus them on anything and everything you can appreciate in your life at the present time. Anything and Everything….the bed you sleep in, running water in your home, the new capabilities and connections technology has brought us, the way your body unconditionally loves you regardless of what you do to it, the ability to focus, the freedom you have, the people in your life, the people coming into your life….you get the idea. Abraham-Hicks would call this a “rampage of appreciation.” A “rampage of appreciation” sure sounds better than a “rampage of the crap I’m dealing with today,” and it certainly feels better.
This is what manifesting and the Law of Attraction is all about—feeling better to allow what you have attracted to manifest into your experience. Oh and there’s that added bonus of feeling better for the sake of feeling better itself.
Feel better. The better you decide to feel, the better it gets!







beautiful, beautiful post!
Comment by Christy — July 2, 2009 @ 5:23 am
so very true! hard to maintain sometimes but if I keep reading this I know i will do better! thanks for including me
Comment by jennifer martinez — July 3, 2009 @ 3:54 pm
Yes - we always have the ability to “choose” thoughts. And “action” and “effort” complicates the process. In fact, effort or action will lead you away from the good-feeling state. When you have a thought of what you DON’T want, then that’s very good because that bad-feeling thought is your clue to think about what you DO want. Presto! Isn’t that the easiest thing to do? Just change your thought. Bing! - the thought is changed. NOW I feel good. Feeling bad is your signal that you are not in vibrational balance. So you always know exactly what your thoughts are by how you feel! So simple to do. And this is an internal process.
Comment by Paulina — July 3, 2009 @ 4:52 pm
Excellent, Susan! Have we found your true calling?
Blessings,
Bea
Comment by Bea Harris — July 4, 2009 @ 3:38 pm
Thank you Christy!
Comment by joyofliv — July 5, 2009 @ 5:00 am
Yes Bea, I believe I have! Thank you for all of your encouragement! Much love!
Comment by joyofliv — July 5, 2009 @ 6:05 am
Well said, Paulina. The negative emotion is your indicator that your thoughts are not in alignment with that which you are wanting. Consistently finding a better feeling thought to pivot to when this happens, results not only in a more joy-filled life, but in attracting the experiences you desire.
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